Boundaries! I had none. I didn't really know what they were. I knew that I found yours initially really frustrating, in fact you pissed me off, but we talked about them. We talked some more. Then some more. You held boundaries, firmly but gently and I learnt somehow to find my own. For that I am forever grateful because now I know who I am. I wasn't easy and I know that it was down to your blend of skill, tenderness and 'toughness' that kept me engaging with you. Like some of the other reviews that I've read, it's difficult to put into words what this experience has done for me but I wanted to put something so here it is. Thank you Thom. Our time together will stay with me always.